Women Forum - Paraphilia(can It Affect Women?)
Posted on February 23, 2008
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i just wondered,am i the only female thathas these problems,or can many women havethem as well?
winter_child:
what is ur problem?
catonia:
Not sure where to begin
at first,i thought i had teratophilia,butit doesn’t quite fit.It’s more of a likingfor hideous features e.g. axe homicidelook and devil features,on morefrightening side etc…
Trust me,it would all do your head in if itried to explain it all.
fiona05:
anyone can have any kind of fetish, aslong as it does not harm anyone else thereis no reason to be worried about it.
RebelCats:
for those who may not know whatteratophilia and paraphilia are:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Teratophilia
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilia
As long as you are not harming anon-consensual person then whateverarouses you arouses you.
catonia:
thanks.I am harmless with mine.
I discovered it’s not Teratophilia,it’sjust an interest that’s a bitdifferent,nothing big.
I’ll put a pic in my avatar and maybesomeone can tell me if the interest isabnormal or not.
fiona05:
all this talk of ‘normal’ and ‘abnormal’,it’s ok, let it go! me personally i thinkit is unusual, but unusual does not meanbad. whatever floats your boat! anyonewho doesnt share your desires is morelikely to have a sense of humour about itthan to think you are strange. try to belighthearted about it! it is somethingthat makes you unique and individual.
catonia:
i’ve spoken to some people who are exactlythe same as me,about several of them,so idon’t feel as unusual now i’m not theonly one,so that’s a relief.
Georgia59:
And you’re so young, your sexuality willchange and grow. At least you understandwhat you like!
And of course women get fetishes!
catonia:
Is my interest a fetish? I just keepwondering if it’s a paraphilia/fetish orwhatever.
Georgia59:
It could be, yes. But fetishes are kind’veon a range- most people have a fetish tosome extent, and some people have themmore strongly.
It’s common to have some kind of fetish.For some girls, it’s cowboys. For you,it’s different. That’s all.
catonia:
But it’s not Teratophilia,right? as longit’s not that…
Georgia59:
You’re the only one who can decide if it’sa particular fetish or not. But really,you like what you like, who cares whatit’s called!
keen:
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what about people who like pensioners?like 18 or 20 year olds having fantasiesabout 90 year olds.
Georgia59:
That’s odd I guess, but there’s nothingwrong with it, and it wouldn’t betechnically a diagnosable paraphilia aslong as you were still able to have normalrelationships and your obsession with thatperson didn’t rule your life.
catonia:
I’ve been confused again.
Can a crush make others feel sick???
When people look at her and say “pass thevomit bag” or “She’s monstrous” orsomething,i start to feel ashamed ofmyself. :s
How come my “crush” isn’t allflowers,hearts and fairy tale fantasies?Instead it’s just sexual.
I hid it in shame for 3 years straight aswell!
Georgia59:
That’s normal hun! It’s just lust. You canhave a ‘crush’ on someone that’s justsexual. And others might even think it’sicky. I think it’s icky when people have acrush on Richard Gere, but that doesn’tmake it wrong at all.
Georgia59:
Oh, and no one else would actually getsick about it, just a figure of speech. Incase you didn’t realize that, I don’tknow.
Eiri:
You go to a psychologist and hopefullythey are open minded enough to realisewhat true sexual deviance is, and are ableto properly tell you whether or not youhave paraphilia. Honestly, if yourinterest is just a lesbian attraction toolder women, (not grannies!) then how onearth can that be considered “abnormal”?Plenty of people like other adults thatare out of their “age range”. Look atJohnny Depp. He still has young women intheir 20’s swooning for him and he’s inhis mid 40’s!! How about Sean Connery, orPatrick Stewart? There are many older guysthat young women like. So, why couldn’t ayoung woman like an older woman?
catonia:
It was just that one bit i didn’t quiteunderstand.
Only really ignorant people see it asabnormal anyway.
Georgia59:
That’s a good attitude
catonia:
Yeah.
They need to watch Jerry Springer
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